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Porn as Education


2 women recently have asked me about porn watching and their men. Both are married, both men venture off to hour long showers (we know what you’re doing! haha!). My advice? ENJOY porn with your partner. When you see your partner is about to “escape” into her/his world, ask sweetly and seductively if you can watch with. Instead of being angry at your partner, use this as an OPPORTUNITY to bring you closer together.

A bit ago, there was a sexual technique I was curious about. I could ask a friend, but I still wouldn’t be able to see “it.” So I typed my search on Google and EDUCATED MYSELF by watching porn.

Don’t make it a decisive issue, let it unfold, let it bring fresh excitement to your relationship. Sex is a beautiful gift created by God/universe. So many positions, methods, styles, toys… Don’t think that because your partner is watching porn he’s some kind of pervert. We were CREATED to ENJOY sex! Get in on what your partner is interested in watching, LEARN, EXPLORE, PRACTICE. Text your partner horny messages…”remember that video we watched with that asian guy...you are so much better than that!” “when that guy touched that girl...that turned me on, can we try that tonight?”

No “normal” male I know prefers porn over a nice woman. Sweeten yourself up a bit, compliment your partner, laugh, put on something sexy, eat, feed your partner, make sex ENJOYABLE, fun and creative.

I HIGHLY recommend cultivating a Tantric lifestyle (good energy, being mindful, fully present, abundantly thankful.) After you begin to practice the daily lifestyle, bring Tantra into your lovemaking. I have enjoyed the book The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex and mytinysecrets.com

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